Tough Thoughts

Facing a hip or joint replacement can be an emotional rollercoaster. The physical pain is one thing—but the mental and emotional side can hit just as hard. You may find yourself spiraling into “what ifs,” fear, and even sadness about what’s to come. That’s completely normal—and it doesn’t mean you’re weak.


Acknowledge Your Feelings

The first step is simple but powerful: allow yourself to feel. Anxiety, sadness, fear, and even anger are natural reactions to the uncertainty of surgery. Suppressing them often makes them louder.

Try journaling:

  • Write down your fears: “What if the pain doesn’t go away?”
  • Write down your hopes: “I want to walk my dog pain-free again.”
  • Write down what you can control: prepping your home, learning exercises, planning your recovery support.

“Naming your emotions gives them less power and helps you take the next step forward.”


Focus on Small Wins

Instead of letting your mind spiral to the endgame—surgery and recovery—focus on what you can do today:

  • Take a short walk or stretch in a way that feels safe
  • Prep your home for recovery (grab bars, pillows, a reachable water bottle)
  • Connect with a friend or peer who has been through this

Even tiny actions remind your brain that you’re taking control, not just being swept along by fear.


Build a Pre-Surgery Support Team

You don’t have to carry this alone. Lean on your community:

  • Friends & Family: Let them know exactly how they can help—rides, meals, check-ins.
  • Hipster Club Members: Connect with someone who’s been through surgery and can share what to expect.
  • Sponsor/Mentor: Ask questions about what the first week was like, and let them reassure you.

“Support isn’t a luxury—it’s a lifeline for your mental and emotional well-being.”


Practice Mindfulness & Stress Relief

Before surgery, stress reduction isn’t optional—it’s essential. Consider:

  • Breathing exercises: 5–10 minutes of slow, deep breathing to calm the nervous system
  • Meditation or visualization: Imagine yourself walking pain-free, or visualize your recovery process step by step
  • Gentle movement: Safe stretching, swimming, or yoga (approved by your doctor) to release tension
  • Journaling: Write letters to yourself about your fears and hopes

“Mind and body are connected. When one is calm, the other heals faster.”


Reframe the “What Ifs”

Your brain loves to play out worst-case scenarios—but you can challenge it:

  • “What if it hurts?” → “Pain is temporary; I have a plan to manage it.”
  • “What if recovery is slow?” → “Every step counts. I will ask for help and celebrate small victories.”
  • “What if I lose independence?” → “I’m preparing, and I will regain my mobility and strength.”

This isn’t about ignoring fear—it’s about giving it structure and a path forward.


Connect to Purpose

Sometimes the darkest thoughts before surgery hide a bigger truth: you want your life back. Whether it’s walking the dog, dancing, swimming, or playing with grandchildren, anchor yourself in that “why.”

“Your goal isn’t just surgery—it’s reclaiming your life, one step at a time.”


Action Steps Before Surgery

  1. Write down your fears and hopes.
  2. Identify 3 people to lean on—friends, family, or a mentor.
  3. Prep your environment—make your home recovery-friendly.
  4. Schedule calming practices daily—breathing, meditation, gentle movement.
  5. Join a support community—ask questions, share concerns, and learn from others’ experiences.

Pre-Surgery Emotional Recovery Guide: Navigating the Days Before Your Joint Replacement

Facing a hip or joint replacement is a major life event. Beyond the physical preparations, your mind and emotions are going through a whirlwind: fear, doubt, anxiety, and sometimes even sadness. This guide is designed to help you navigate the emotional side of surgery, build confidence, and create a support system to carry you through recovery.


Step 1: Name Your Emotions

Before you can manage your feelings, you need to acknowledge them.

Exercise: Daily journaling prompt

  • Write down everything you’re feeling—fear, sadness, anger, confusion, even guilt or frustration.
  • Don’t censor yourself. No judgment. This is your space.
  • Next to each feeling, write one small action you can take to respond:

Example:

  • Fear: “I’m afraid of pain after surgery.” → Action: Research pain management strategies and talk to my PT.
  • Anxiety: “I worry I won’t walk normally again.” → Action: Schedule pre-op exercises and read patient stories.

“Naming emotions gives you control over them instead of letting them control you.”


Step 2: Build Your Support Network

You don’t have to face surgery alone. Start connecting now.

Your Support Team:

  1. Sponsor / Mentor: Someone who has been through joint replacement. Ask for tips, reassurance, and real-world advice.
  2. Friends & Family: Identify 2–3 people who can help with meals, errands, or companionship during recovery.
  3. Healthcare Team: Surgeon, physical therapist, health coach—treat them as partners in your recovery.

Tip: Schedule a quick check-in with each person this week. Share what you need, and ask for guidance or support.


Step 3: Daily Mindfulness & Stress Relief

Stress before surgery is normal—but managing it helps both your mind and body.

Daily Practices:

  • 5–10 minutes deep breathing: Inhale for 4, hold 2, exhale for 6. Repeat.
  • Visualization: Picture your recovery—walking confidently, climbing stairs, returning to favorite activities.
  • Gentle movement: Walking, stretching, or swimming (approved by your doctor).
  • Journaling: Write about fears, hopes, and small victories.

“Mind and body are connected. When one is calm, the other heals faster.”


Step 4: Reframe Your ‘What Ifs’

Your brain loves worst-case scenarios. Challenge them with “what is” instead of “what if.”

Examples:

  • “What if recovery is slow?” → “Recovery takes time. I will take it step by step.”
  • “What if I lose independence?” → “I am preparing now and will regain my strength and mobility.”
  • “What if pain is unbearable?” → “I have a plan and support for managing pain safely.”

Exercise: List your top 5 fears, and write one positive, actionable counter-thought next to each.


Step 5: Prepare Your Home & Recovery Space

Practical preparation reduces anxiety:

  • Clear walkways and remove trip hazards
  • Place essentials (water, snacks, medications) within reach
  • Set up recovery station: comfortable chair, blankets, phone charger, reading materials
  • Consider mobility aids: walker, cane, raised toilet seat

“The more ready your environment, the calmer your mind can be.”


Step 6: Connect with a Community

Supportive peers can provide reassurance, tips, and encouragement:

  • Hipster Club or online forums: Ask questions, read recovery stories, and share your feelings.
  • Local support groups: Some hospitals host pre-op or chronic pain sessions.
  • Social media: Join small, private groups with like-minded people.

Tip: Don’t be afraid to ask the “small” or “silly” questions—chances are, someone else has wondered the same thing.


Step 7: Daily Reflection & Small Wins

Tracking progress and reflecting on small accomplishments builds confidence:

Example Tracker:

DateEmotion / ConcernAction TakenSmall Win / Positive Note
11/30AnxietyBreathing exercisesFelt calmer after 10 mins
12/1FearTalked with mentorLearned tips to prep for hospital
12/2OverwhelmCleared recovery areaFelt more in control

Tip: Celebrate any forward movement, no matter how small.


Step 8: Lean on Humor & Perspective

Surgery prep can feel heavy. A little humor goes a long way:

  • Laugh at your “bionic body” fantasies
  • Share funny stories about pre-surgery anxieties with friends
  • Watch a lighthearted show or movie to distract your mind

“Healing starts in the mind. Humor is medicine for the soul.”


Step 9: Plan Your Post-Surgery Support

Knowing what to expect after surgery reduces pre-op anxiety:

  • Daily routine: Meals, exercises, rest periods, medication schedule
  • Check-ins: Plan calls with sponsor, friends, or family
  • Milestones: Walking without pain, climbing stairs, resuming hobbies

Tip: Make a simple “recovery calendar” and include who will help and when.


Step 10: PEMF Therapy for Pre- & Post-Op Support

Many Hipster Club members find PEMF (Pulsed Electromagnetic Field) therapy useful both before and after surgery:

  • Supports cellular healing
  • Reduces inflammation and pain
  • Enhances energy and recovery
  • Complements physical therapy and lifestyle strategies

Tip: Discuss PEMF with your healthcare provider and consider incorporating it into your pre- and post-surgery plan for a holistic approach.


Your Pre-Surgery Checklist

✅ Name your emotions and journal daily
✅ Build a support network (sponsor, friends, family, healthcare team)
✅ Schedule mindfulness and stress relief practices
✅ Reframe “what if” thoughts
✅ Prep your home and recovery space
✅ Join a supportive community
✅ Track daily wins and milestones
✅ Use humor and perspective to lighten heavy moments
✅ Plan post-surgery support and routines
✅ Explore PEMF therapy as part of holistic recovery


Final Words

The days leading up to surgery can feel heavy—but they are also a chance to prepare mentally, emotionally, and physically. Building your community, leaning on your support system, and creating practical routines will give you confidence and calm as you take this important step toward reclaiming your life.

“You are not alone, you are not helpless, and you are stronger than you know. With the right support, preparation, and mindset, you can face surgery—and recovery—with courage and hope.”

Feeling anxious or sad before surgery is not a weakness—it’s a natural response to a major life event. By acknowledging your emotions, leaning on your community, and practicing small daily steps to manage stress, you can face surgery with more confidence, clarity, and courage.

“You’re stronger than you think, and you don’t have to walk this path alone. Reach out, prepare, breathe—and remember, your future self will thank you.”

RECOVERY CHECK LIST

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The Ultimate Guide to Hip Recovery: Preparing, Healing, and Thriving

This guide is your roadmap for navigating hip pain, preparing for surgery, recovering, and thriving afterward. It’s designed for anyone experiencing hip issues—whether it’s early-stage discomfort, post-surgery recovery, or long-term joint management.


Understanding Hip Pain and Joint Degeneration

Hip pain doesn’t always start suddenly. For many, it’s a slow progression…

  • Early signs: Stiffness, mild pain, clicking or popping sounds
  • Advanced signs: Bone-on-bone pain, loss of mobility, difficulty sleeping
  • Common causes: Osteoarthritis, dysplasia, past injuries, autoimmune conditions

Why understanding your pain matters:
Many people try to push through discomfort, thinking it’s “normal aging.” But early recognition allows for interventions that can slow progression and improve quality of life.

Tip: Keep a pain and mobility journal. Track your daily activity, pain levels, and triggers. This record will help your doctor and physical therapist create a personalized plan.


Emotional and Mental Health in the Hip Journey

Hip pain is not just physical—it’s emotional. Many patients experience:

  • Anxiety about mobility and independence
  • Frustration with limitations in daily life
  • Isolation from friends and activities they once enjoyed

Strategies to support emotional health:

  • Mindfulness practices: Meditation, journaling, or guided imagery
  • Community support: Hipster Club, support groups, and online forums
  • Professional guidance: Physical therapists, counselors, or health coaches
  • Set realistic goals: Celebrate small wins like walking further or sleeping through the night

Tip: Your mental health is directly linked to physical recovery. Don’t skip this part of your healing process.


Preparing for Hip Replacement Surgery

Preparation is key for a smooth recovery. Here’s a comprehensive checklist:

Physical Preparation

  • Pre-op exercises to strengthen your core, glutes, and hip muscles
  • Cardiovascular activity like swimming or cycling to improve endurance
  • Stretching to maintain flexibility

Home Preparation

  • Clear pathways, remove trip hazards, and place essentials within reach
  • Set up a recovery station with pillows, water, and snacks
  • Consider raised toilet seats, walkers, or supportive chairs

Medical Preparation

  • Compile your medical history, medications, and supplements
  • Ask your surgeon about blood work, imaging, and pre-op instructions
  • Prepare questions about anesthesia, recovery timeline, and post-op therapy

Nutrition & Lifestyle

  • Anti-inflammatory diet rich in protein, vegetables, and healthy fats
  • Avoid alcohol and smoking to promote healing
  • Hydrate well pre- and post-surgery

Tip: Think of this phase as building a foundation. The better you prepare, the smoother your recovery.


Post-Surgery Recovery Roadmap

Recovery is not one-size-fits-all, but there are key stages and strategies:

Immediate Post-Op (0–2 Weeks)

  • Pain management: Ice, elevation, and medications as prescribed
  • Movement: Gentle walking, short standing sessions
  • Monitor for complications: Swelling, redness, fever, or unusual pain

Early Recovery (2–6 Weeks)

  • Physical therapy begins: Strength and mobility exercises
  • Gradual increase in activity: Walking, light chores, and gentle stretching
  • Maintain mental health: Journaling and mindfulness to track progress

Mid-Recovery (6–12 Weeks)

  • More active therapy: Swimming, cycling, and low-impact exercises
  • Balance and stability: Core and leg strengthening
  • Community engagement: Sharing progress, asking questions, learning from others

Long-Term Recovery (3–12 Months)

  • Return to hobbies: Golf, walking, swimming, or light jogging
  • Monitor hip health: Regular check-ins with your orthopedic surgeon
  • Lifestyle adjustments: Weight management, posture awareness, and supportive footwear

Tip: Track your milestones and celebrate each stage. Recovery is a journey, not a race.


Nutrition & Supplements for Joint Health

What you eat directly affects your joints, inflammation levels, and recovery speed. Key considerations:

  • Protein: Builds muscle to support hip stability
  • Anti-inflammatory foods: Leafy greens, berries, turmeric, fatty fish
  • Calcium & Vitamin D: Support bone density
  • Magnesium & Omega-3s: Reduce inflammation and improve circulation

Supplement Tips:

  • Talk to your doctor before starting new supplements
  • Keep a food and symptom journal to track what works best
  • Avoid excess sugar and processed foods that promote inflammation

Exercise & Movement Strategies

Movement is medicine—but it must be safe and tailored.

Low-Impact Options:

  • Swimming and water aerobics
  • Cycling on a stationary bike
  • Walking on flat surfaces
  • Yoga or Pilates (hip-friendly modifications)

Strengthening & Stability:

  • Core exercises to protect the lower back and hips
  • Glute activation to support hip stability
  • Gentle resistance training with bands or light weights

Tip: Always listen to your body. Some days will feel better than others—progress gradually.


Community & Emotional Support

Recovery is easier with others who understand your journey. Hipster Club was built for this reason:

  • Connect with people who’ve walked your path
  • Share tips on surgery, recovery, and lifestyle adjustments
  • Ask questions, celebrate wins, and get encouragement

Tip: Isolation slows healing. Even short check-ins or online discussions can make a huge difference.


PEMF Therapy: Boosting Recovery at the Cellular Level

Once your foundation—preparation, exercise, nutrition, and support—is in place, PEMF (Pulsed Electromagnetic Field) therapy can accelerate healing:

  • Reduces inflammation – Eases pain and swelling in joints
  • Supports cellular repair – Recharges ATP for energy and regeneration
  • Enhances recovery – Promotes mobility and overall function

Types of Devices:

  • Full-body mats: Energize all your cells
  • Targeted paddles: Focus on hips, knees, or sore areas
  • Brain-focused PEMF: Supports cognitive and neurological function

Tip: Think of PEMF as the “turbo boost” for your body—it complements therapy, movement, and lifestyle strategies.


Your Hip Recovery Checklist

  • Educate yourself: Knowledge is power
  • Track your progress: Pain, mobility, and emotional milestones
  • Move with purpose: Consistency matters more than intensity
  • Build your support network: Friends, family, or Hipster Club
  • Advocate for yourself: Ask questions and explore holistic options
  • Celebrate every win: Small improvements are still progress
  • Explore PEMF therapy: Cellular support enhances all other recovery steps

Your Next Steps

  • Join Hipster Club – Connect with others who understand your journey [Insert link]
  • Schedule a consultation – Work with your healthcare provider on a personalized plan
  • Try gentle exercises – Start walking, stretching, or swimming
  • Learn about PEMF – Discover how targeted cellular energy can support your healing [Insert link]

Remember: Recovery is a journey, not a race. With preparation, support, and the right tools, you can reclaim your mobility, confidence, and life—one step at a time.

Download our Hipster Club Healing Workbook….below!

The Power of Community

Why No One Should Go Through Hip Pain or Joint Replacement Alone

Hip pain—or any joint pain—can quietly reshape your life. Daily movements that were once effortless may now feel like obstacles. Sleep can be disrupted, energy can wane, and even simple tasks can become frustrating. Over time, pain can isolate you. Walks get shorter, social events are skipped, and conversations shift from sharing life to hiding discomfort.

But there’s one thing that consistently helps people navigate this journey with confidence, less fear, and better outcomes: community.


Why Community Matters in the Joint Replacement Journey

A joint replacement—whether hip, knee, or another joint—is more than a medical procedure. It’s a journey of body, mind, and spirit. Whether you’re experiencing the first signs of discomfort, preparing for surgery, or recovering post-op, having people who truly understand your experiences can transform your recovery, your outlook, and your life.

“You don’t have to explain yourself—here, you are understood.”

Community isn’t just about advice—it’s about empathy, encouragement, shared wisdom, and connection.


Shared Understanding

Only someone who has struggled to walk through a grocery store, climb stairs, or put on shoes with pain can truly empathize. In Hipster Club, you don’t have to hide your struggles. People get it—and that understanding is powerful. Just knowing you’re not alone can reduce stress, lift your spirits, and give you courage.


Collective Wisdom

No single person has all the answers—but a community of people who have gone through joint replacement holds thousands of insights:

  • What to pack for the hospital or recovery
  • How to manage swelling, pain, or fatigue
  • The best chairs, mobility aids, and exercises
  • Mistakes to avoid during rehab

“The tips here aren’t theoretical—they come from lived experience. That’s knowledge you can trust.”


Emotional Support

Fear, doubt, frustration, and impatience are natural. Facing them alone can feel overwhelming. Community provides:

  • Someone to say, “I’ve been there—here’s what helped me.”
  • Someone to remind you, “You’re not alone in this.”

This emotional support carries you through the tough days and reminds you that healing is more than physical—it’s also mental and emotional.


Motivation & Encouragement

Recovery can feel slow or invisible. Seeing others regain strength, walk further, or return to activities they love is proof that healing is possible. And when you share your own progress, you become a beacon of hope for someone else.

“Every step forward inspires someone else to take their own.”


A Safe Place to Ask Anything

Hipster Club is a judgment-free zone. There are no silly questions here. Want to know if your swelling is normal? Wondering which shoes make walking easier? Curious if your fear is something others have felt too? Community gives you a safe space to ask, learn, compare experiences, and grow.


A Sense of Belonging

Joint pain can make people feel older, broken, or left behind. Community rebuilds identity. It reminds you:

  • You’re capable
  • You’re brave
  • You’re healing
  • You belong

“You’re not just recovering—you’re part of something bigger.”


The Heart of Hipster Club

Hipster Club was built on the belief that patients heal better together. It’s more than a website—it’s a movement. A place where:

  • People share their stories
  • Members learn from each other
  • No one feels alone
  • Every voice matters
  • Everyone has something to teach and something to gain

From early-stage pain explorers to pre-op planners, post-op walkers, and seasoned joint replacement veterans, the power of the community is in its connections.


Your Story Can Make a Difference

Whether you’re just starting your journey or years beyond your surgery, your experience can:

  • Ease someone else’s fear
  • Shorten their recovery
  • Help them feel seen and understood

Sharing is healing—for you, and for the person reading your words.


For People of All Ages

Joint replacement isn’t limited to one age group. Young adults, middle-aged adults, and older adults all face unique challenges:

  • Staying active while managing family or career responsibilities
  • Navigating recovery while maintaining independence
  • Regaining confidence in your body and lifestyle

Hipster Club supports everyone. No matter your age, stage of recovery, or type of joint replacement, this community is a place for guidance, encouragement, and connection.

“Healing isn’t about age—it’s about resilience, support, and reclaiming your life.”


Healing Together, One Joint at a Time

Hipster Club is more than stories, advice, or tips—it’s hope, inspiration, and belonging. Here, you’re not just a patient—you’re part of a community that celebrates every step forward, understands every struggle, and welcomes every voice.

No one should go through joint pain or replacement alone.

Hip Hip HOORAY

Your Hip Happy Hour Guide: Celebrate Your Hip Journey Anywhere!

A Hip Happy Hour is your personal celebration—before surgery to honor your courage, or after surgery to mark your healing milestones. Think of it as a moment to pause, reflect, and reward yourself for navigating one of life’s toughest journeys: hip recovery.

Whether you’re pre-op, post-op, or somewhere in between, here’s how to create your own Hip Happy Hour anywhere in the world.

1. Choose Your Setting

Your Hip Happy Hour can happen anywhere:

At home with a cozy corner, your favorite music, and some snacks

In a park with a walking buddy or support group

At a local café or wellness center for a mini celebration

Virtually, with friends, family, or fellow hip replacement warriors

The key is to make it comfortable, safe, and celebratory.

2. Invite Your HIP Crew

Recovery is better with support! Bring along:

A HIP buddy who is going through or has gone through surgery

Friends or family who uplift you

Members of online hip replacement communities

Even your physical therapist or healthcare provider for advice and encouragement

Shared experiences make recovery less lonely and more motivating.

3. Set Your Intentions

Take a few moments to reflect:

Celebrate small victories—walking a few steps, standing longer, or reducing pain

Set healing goals—like adding light exercises, improving flexibility, or journaling emotions

Acknowledge the emotional journey—it’s okay to feel nervous, frustrated, or even excited

4. Make It Fun

Play uplifting music or create a playlist of songs that inspire movement and positivity

Prepare a special beverage or snack—something you love that feels like a treat

Incorporate a ritual: light a candle, write a gratitude note, or toast to your future mobility

5. Support Your Body

While celebrating, remember your body needs care:

Keep up with rehabilitation exercises and gentle movement

Nourish yourself with anti-inflammatory foods and hydration

Incorporate wellness tools like PEMF therapy to support healing at a cellular level

6. Celebrate Your Emotions

Healing is not just physical—it’s emotional. Use your Hip Happy Hour to:

Release fear, frustration, or stress through journaling or meditation

Share your story with your support group

Laugh, cry, and honor the journey—you’ve earned it!

7. Keep the Momentum Going

Hip Happy Hour is not a one-time event—it’s a mindset.

Celebrate milestones: your first walk without a cane, returning to a favorite activity, or reaching a therapy goal

Keep inviting your HIP crew to check in, share tips, and cheer you on

Remember: one size does not fit all—listen to your body, ask questions, and seek support whenever you need it

Your HIP Cheerleader is Here

If you ever feel uncertain, overwhelmed, or just need encouragement, I’m here to help. Email me, and we’ll set up a time to connect. Together, we’ll make your journey safer, more informed, and yes—full of celebration.

HERE’S A CHECKLIST:

Hip Happy Hour Checklist: Step-by-Step

1. Choose Your Location
☐ Park, for fresh air and gentle walking
☐ Local café, wellness center, or community space
☐ Virtually via video call with friends, family, or hip replacement peers
☐ Home, in a comfortable and safe environment

2. Invite Your HIP Crew
☐ Hip buddy (someone going through or recovered from surgery)
☐ Friends and family for encouragement and support
☐ Online hip replacement communities or Facebook groups
☐ Physical therapist, doctor, or healthcare provider for guidance

3. Set Your Intentions
☐ Celebrate small victories: steps taken, pain reduced, improved balance
☐ Set recovery goals: gentle exercises, flexibility routines, journaling
☐ Acknowledge emotions: fear, frustration, anxiety, or excitement

4. Make It Fun
☐ Create a playlist of uplifting or motivational songs
☐ Prepare a special beverage or healthy snack
☐ Include a personal ritual: light a candle, write gratitude notes, or toast to progress

5. Support Your Body
☐ Complete daily rehabilitation exercises or stretches
☐ Eat anti-inflammatory foods and hydrate well
☐ Use PEMF therapy or other wellness tools to aid cellular healing and reduce inflammation
☐ Take short, gentle walks to keep joints moving

6. Celebrate Your Emotions
☐ Journaling: write down feelings, fears, or progress
☐ Share your story with your HIP crew
☐ Laugh, cry, and honor your journey

7. Keep the Momentum Going
☐ Schedule mini Hip Happy Hours to celebrate milestones
☐ Track progress: walking distance, pain reduction, or therapy achievements
☐ Keep your HIP crew involved for regular encouragement and advice
☐ Remember to listen to your body and adjust your goals as needed

WELCOME TO HIPSTER CLUB

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IT’S HERE YOU WILL FIND ALL THINGS HIP…

I’m Jodi Seidler, and I’m here to share my experience, knowledge, support, and research expertise to help guide you on your healing journey. Together, we’ll navigate the challenges of hip replacement, explore the latest technologies, and discover ways to live in a strong, healthy, and mobile body.

Follow along as we walk this path together. I encourage you to share the topics you’re most interested in—I’ve curated the best, most up-to-date resources and therapies to support your recovery, long-term joint health, and overall wellness.


When You’re Just TOO HIP!

Let me begin by welcoming you to my hip journey. Most of us know the moment: you’re told you need a hip replacement (or maybe two), and suddenly everything slows down. Pain, fear, and uncertainty take over. I was told I was too young for surgery and endured two years of lingering pain until I could barely walk without a cane.

During that time, I began journaling daily—a way to process fear, release emotions, and stay connected to myself. That journal eventually became a WordPress blog, a space to share experiences, vent, and learn from others who had walked similar paths.

Three years and two hip replacements later, I began rebuilding my life. Complications, setbacks, and unexpected challenges pushed me further into research, connecting with others, writing, and—most importantly—remembering to breathe. Breathe. Breathe. Slow down.

Recovery is a journey, not a race, and learning to honor the process is one of the most empowering steps you can take.


Joining the Hipster Club

No matter how you celebrate your progress—or even if you haven’t yet—you’ve now joined the Hipster Club, a global community of bionic men and women who understand bone-on-bone pain, surgery fears, and the uncertainty of recovery.

No one truly understands the challenges of a reduced quality of life or the anxiety of upcoming surgery until they face it themselves. Having reliable information, support, and the insights gained from experience can make all the difference—and that’s exactly what Hipster Club provides.

For example, I would never have known:

  • To ask for anti-nausea medication in the hospital caused by pain meds
  • Which adaptive devices would make early recovery easier (my grabber was a lifesaver!)
  • To arrange a buddy system for walks, meals, or pet care during the first days after surgery

These practical tips, shared by fellow hipsters, are invaluable. Small strategies can make your recovery safer, faster, and more empowering.


Why Hipster Club Exists

Hipster Club is here for you:

  • To provide support and remind you that you are never alone
  • To create a community of shared experience and knowledge, helping each other stay out of pain and move confidently in our new bodies
  • To offer advice, encouragement, and practical tips during a scary or uncertain transition
  • To celebrate milestones, no matter how small, because every step forward is progress

Hip replacement technology has advanced dramatically since I had my first hip at 50. Today, we have what I call “drive-by replacements”, procedures that can be completed in a single day. Innovations emerge every month and year, and now 3-D printing is enabling fully customized joint replacements, tailored to each individual’s anatomy.


PEMF Therapy: Boost Your Healing

One of the most exciting developments in recovery is PEMF (Pulsed Electromagnetic Field) therapy. PEMF delivers low-level electromagnetic frequencies to the body, helping to:

  • Stimulate bone growth and repair
  • Reduce inflammation and swelling
  • Improve circulation and cellular function
  • Support overall recovery and wellness

Many hip replacement patients find that combining PEMF with physical therapy, nutrition, and mindfulness practices accelerates healing and reduces post-operative discomfort. I’ll share tips, resources, and insights on using PEMF effectively as part of your hip recovery plan.


Hip Happy Hour: Celebrate Your Journey

Recovery is not just physical—it’s emotional and mental too. That’s why I created the concept of a Hip Happy Hour. It’s your personal celebration:

  • Before surgery, to honor your courage and preparation
  • After surgery, to mark milestones and progress in healing

A Hip Happy Hour can happen anywhere—at home, in a park, with friends, or virtually. Invite a HIP buddy or group, set intentions, reflect on victories, and reward yourself for every step forward. Recovery is a journey, and celebrating along the way keeps you motivated, positive, and connected.


Your Journey to Becoming Bionic

Hipster Club is more than a community—it’s a support system, a knowledge hub, and a celebration of resilience. Here you can:

  • Learn from others who have walked the same path
  • Access the latest tools, technologies, and therapies for recovery
  • Share experiences, tips, and encouragement
  • Celebrate milestones, big and small, in your healing journey

Recovery is personal, and one size does not fit all. Ask questions, seek proper education, and surround yourself with support. Hipster Club is here to help you navigate hip replacement with confidence, knowledge, and encouragement, one step at a time.

Welcome to the land of the bionic. Welcome to Hipster Club. Together, we’ll put the HIP back in hip replacements.


Put the HIP back into hip replacements….

I welcome you to the land of becoming bionic and I thank you for finding your way here to The Hipster Club. 

Have questions?  Email me

Hip Pain: What to Do When It Starts and How to Manage It

Once the OUCH begins….

Hip pain is a common complaint, whether it stems from osteoarthritis, hip dysplasia, bursitis, or other underlying conditions. For many people, the first signs of discomfort are mild stiffness or soreness, but over time, it can progress to persistent pain that interferes with walking, sleeping, and daily life. Knowing how to respond early can make a significant difference in both your quality of life and your eventual treatment outcomes.


Step 1: Listen to Your Body

The first step when hip pain arises is awareness. Pay attention to:

  • How the pain feels: dull, sharp, radiating, or constant
  • When the pain occurs: during activity, at rest, or at night
  • How it affects your mobility: stiffness, difficulty walking, or limping

Keeping a pain journal can be invaluable. Record your symptoms, what triggers pain, and what relieves it. Over time, this information becomes a critical tool for your doctor and helps you track progress.


Step 2: Research Your Options

Before jumping into treatments or assuming surgery is inevitable, explore your options. Knowledge is power, and understanding your choices allows you to make informed decisions.

  1. Medical Consultation
    Schedule an appointment with an orthopedic specialist to discuss your symptoms. Ask about:
    • Diagnosis tests (X-rays, MRI, or CT scans)
    • Non-surgical treatment options
    • Surgical options if needed
  2. Second Opinions
    Hip pain is common, but not all treatments are the same. Don’t hesitate to get multiple opinions—especially if surgery is recommended.
  3. Alternative Therapies
    Consider non-invasive approaches that can help manage pain and improve mobility:
    • PEMF (Pulsed Electromagnetic Field) Therapy: Enhances circulation, reduces inflammation, and promotes cellular repair.
    • Physical Therapy: Targeted exercises to strengthen muscles around the hip, reduce strain, and improve stability.
    • Acupuncture: May relieve pain by stimulating nerves and reducing inflammation.
    • Massage Therapy: Can ease tight muscles and improve blood flow.
  4. Lifestyle Adjustments
    • Maintain a healthy weight to reduce pressure on the hip joint.
    • Low-impact exercises like swimming or cycling help maintain mobility without causing further damage.
    • Use supportive shoes or orthotic inserts to reduce strain.

Step 3: Relieve Pain While You Decide on Treatment

Even if surgery may be necessary eventually, you can take steps now to reduce pain and maintain function:

  1. PEMF Therapy at Home
    PEMF therapy has been studied extensively for chronic joint pain, inflammation, and post-operative healing. Using a PEMF mat or localized device can help manage pain and promote joint health.
  2. Gentle Exercise
    Walking, stretching, and swimming are excellent ways to maintain mobility and prevent muscle atrophy. Avoid high-impact activities that worsen the pain.
  3. Pain Management Tools
    • Over-the-counter medications such as acetaminophen or NSAIDs (ibuprofen) can help temporarily.
    • Heat and cold therapy: Use heat to relax tight muscles and cold packs to reduce inflammation.
  4. Mind-Body Practices
    Chronic pain is not just physical—it affects mental well-being. Meditation, deep breathing, and gentle yoga can reduce stress and improve pain tolerance.
  5. Assistive Devices
    Using a cane, walker, or hip brace temporarily can relieve strain on the joint and make daily activities safer.

Step 4: Plan for the Future

Hip pain may worsen over time, and for some, surgery becomes inevitable. Being proactive can make this transition easier:

  • Start documenting your pain and mobility limitations.
  • Build a support system—family, friends, or communities like Hipster Club can help.
  • Learn about rehabilitation protocols and recovery expectations before surgery.
  • Consider PEMF and physical therapy as prehabilitation—preparing your body to recover faster after surgery.

Step 5: Advocate for Yourself

Hip pain is highly individual. Some people can manage it with non-surgical therapies for years; others may need surgery sooner. Always be your own advocate:

  • Ask questions and seek clarity on diagnosis and treatment options.
  • Research reputable sources for alternative therapies and devices.
  • Make informed decisions rather than rushing into interventions out of fear or pain.

Key Takeaways

  • Hip pain is a signal, not something to ignore. Early action can slow progression.
  • Document symptoms, research options, and consult medical professionals.
  • PEMF therapy, physical therapy, and lifestyle changes can help manage pain until surgery or even reduce the need for it.
  • Support, preparation, and self-advocacy make recovery smoother if surgery becomes necessary.

Final Thoughts

Experiencing hip pain can feel isolating and frightening, but you are not alone. By taking proactive steps—learning, using non-invasive therapies like PEMF, and building a support system—you can improve your quality of life, maintain mobility, and feel more confident in your decisions about treatment.

The Hipster Club …when You’re Just TOO Hip

Navigating the Path to Hip Replacement: A Guide to the Initial Investigation Process


Facing the prospect of a hip replacement can be daunting, but understanding the initial investigation process can help alleviate some anxiety. From recognizing symptoms to consulting with medical professionals, each step plays a crucial role in ensuring a successful outcome.

Recognizing Symptoms:
The journey begins with recognizing symptoms that may indicate the need for a hip replacement. Persistent hip pain, stiffness, limited range of motion, and difficulty walking or performing daily activities are common indicators. It’s essential not to ignore these signs and seek medical advice promptly.

Consulting with a Physician:
The next step involves consulting with a primary care physician or orthopedic specialist. During this appointment, the physician will conduct a physical examination, review medical history, and possibly order diagnostic tests such as X-rays or MRI scans to assess the extent of hip damage.

Referral to a Specialist:
Depending on the severity of the condition and the physician’s assessment, a referral to a specialist, such as an orthopedic surgeon, may be necessary. Specialists have expertise in evaluating joint conditions and can provide personalized treatment recommendations tailored to individual needs.

Exploring Non-Surgical Options:
Before considering surgery, exploring non-surgical treatment options is often recommended. These may include lifestyle modifications, physical therapy, medications, or injections to manage pain and improve mobility. The goal is to alleviate symptoms and delay the need for surgery whenever possible.

Considering Surgical Intervention:
If conservative treatments fail to provide adequate relief, surgery may be the next step. The decision to undergo a hip replacement is a collaborative process between the patient, physician, and possibly other healthcare professionals. It’s essential to discuss the risks, benefits, and expected outcomes of surgery thoroughly.

Preoperative Evaluation:
Prior to scheduling surgery, patients typically undergo a preoperative evaluation to assess overall health and readiness for the procedure. This may include blood tests, electrocardiogram (ECG), and other diagnostic tests to identify any underlying medical conditions that could affect surgery or recovery.

Planning for Recovery:
Preparing for recovery is crucial to ensure a smooth postoperative experience. This may involve arranging for assistance at home, modifying the living environment for accessibility, and discussing rehabilitation plans with healthcare providers. Having a support system in place can also contribute to a successful recovery.

Conclusion:
The journey to a hip replacement begins with recognizing symptoms and seeking medical advice. Through a series of steps, including consultations, evaluations, and collaborative decision-making, individuals can navigate the process with confidence. By understanding the initial investigation process, patients can take proactive steps towards regaining mobility and improving their quality of life.

18 Years and TWO Hip Replacements Later…

Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought I would have needed a hip replacement. It started out as a headache in my leg and soon, I couldn’t walk. After swearing off surgery, I spent two painful years in denial going to physical therapy, trying acupuncture, taking medications, even talking to psychics – and just plain praying for a miracle. Having never had surgery, I was fearful of the unknown.

I love and live to walk. Back then, I could not walk more than a block without having to stop. Merely reaching the top of my apartment stairs was a feat that was not going to happen much longer. Realizing I was only going downhill, I began to take matters into my own hands. I started calling surgeons and tracking people who had gone through this process before. I did a ton of research before and after so I knew what to ask when I met with the surgeon. In fact, I visited five surgeons. A swimmer at heart and new to the sport of golf, I was ready to get back to the life I had been missing out on. I needed to feel pain-free again. No one can imagine bone-on-bone pain until you have experienced it.

I created my own Surgery Preparation Regimen to get me through the next chapter in my life, complete with:

A hip farewell party with 45 friends and family members to help create a positive spin on the experience:
– Who would stay with me
– Who would bring me dinner
– How I would get around
– Who would take me for walks
– Who was my emergency contact if I was feeling down

I also kept a journal so I had a place to let my feelings out and get in touch with the “new me” emerging through this process. I called it an initiation.

After surgery, my then 88-year-old mother flew from Arizona to help me. Talk about surreal. Never did my mother expect to be taking care of me and changing my light bulbs. But to be honest, it was kind of amazing.

Recovery was intense as I worked through the process of walking with an artificial hip. Then… two. I think it would be easy to say “poor me” but instead, I embraced it and realized I needed to help myself and help others in the process.

Jump-starting the healing process, I began blogging about my experiences. I am so grateful for the mobility I have now. I am now extra-willing to help people struggle with the challenge of joint pain or those who need a replacement of any kind. That is why I wanted to blog. I created Hipster Club to share my knowledge, experience, hope and to create a community.

Patients have to be their own advocate and I want to help be a solid resource for those willing to seek out the answers. Whenever I see someone with a limp, I ask them if it is a knee or a hip. Who knows where the conversation can lead.

Remember, when we first discover, through bone-on-bone pain or an achy thigh or hip area, that we will be needing a hip replacement – our minds might be flooded with fears, questions and a WTF moment or two. My mind and emotions were constantly alternating between disbelief, panic, and numbness. I went right to the internet and researched all night long, and also kept a journal because I had so much emotion and so many questions pouring out of me all at once.

I wasn’t a dancer, I didn’t jog, I didn’t do extreme sports or obsessive workouts – I just had wear-and-tear arthritis (AO) and dysplasia of the hip (which I did not know I was born with). The shit hit the fan when I was 50 and raising my son in his teenage years, as a single mom. So as if single parenting wasn’t enough, I had to add a few hip replacements into my life’s mix.

Chronic pain is no fun for anyone, and we can easily become isolated, depressed, depleted and feel alone in our journey into becoming bionic. With young hip replacement recipients, many surgeons would ask patients to wait as long as possible before having surgery, and we did what our doctors told us. We waited until our quality of life got so bad we had to cry “uncle;” I waited two years until I could not even walk. Don’t wait. Research your options, get advice. Do your homework. Create a joint replacement support team.

What I didn’t know then or could not have fathomed is that my career and journalistic voice was about to change as well. But first I had to go through the dark night of the soul and two hip replacements in three years. I chose the conventional replacement the first time, with the posterior approach and titanium on plastic – and that was a very hard recovery for me and my little body.

Three years later with my right hip, I went to a surgeon who offered the anterior approach and ceramic and plastic. I was driving after two weeks and did not have the restrictions of the other. I was happy to become a guinea pig of sorts (a very cute one if I may be so bold) and see which approach lasted longer and which had less pain throughout time and travel. By the way, I was told both approaches end up the same after the recovery period.

Well, it’s 18 years later, and I have to admit I have had a few bouts of scary pain and ache, which also created a sense memory of all that I went through. The pain was most uncomfortable: (1) upon rising from a movie theater seat, (2) after more than three to five hours of walking (Note to self: stretching first is a great idea), (3) I have to get up every two to three hours of sitting so I do not get stiff or achy.

Remember, it’s the miles – not the years that remind us how long our hips might last. They could last a lifetime or a few decades – but it is the quality of our lives as hipsters that matter. Don’t take dangerous chances with your hips, but don’t live quietly either.

Feel your strength for all you have been through, be proud of the new bionic you and go out there and rock the world. Make a difference. Express your strength. Be there for others. And be you in all of your bionic glory!

Feel free to write in your own tips and experiences of pain or relief. And write me if you need anything in your journey from HIP to Hero.

Forever Yours,

Jodi Seidler, Hipster Girl

 

Chronic Pain NO MORE

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From Shock to Strength: How I Took Control of My Hip Journey

When I was first diagnosed with hip dysplasia and AO at age 50, I was completely unprepared. Shocked. Terrified. The pain was bone-on-bone, relentless, and made every step feel like a battle. But the hardest part wasn’t just the physical agony—it was the question: Why me?

I wasn’t a runner. I wasn’t a professional dancer. I was a swimmer and a walker, someone who lived an active but moderate life. And no one in my family had hip issues. How had this happened to me?

The pain wasn’t just an inconvenience—it was isolating. Walking the dog, climbing stairs, even bending to pick something up felt risky. Every movement was a reminder of my limitations. The fear extended beyond the pain—it was the fear of losing independence, facing surgery, and stepping into the unknown.

I spent countless hours online researching my condition, meeting orthopedic specialists, and trying to understand what was happening to my body. It was overwhelming. Anxiety was a constant companion. I wondered if I’d ever feel “normal” again.

Looking back, though, that combination of pain, fear, and curiosity became my fuel. It inspired me to help others navigate this journey. That’s the heart of this site: to provide knowledge, tools, and strategies so anyone facing hip pain or surgery can approach it with confidence, courage, and clarity.


Discovering PEMF: A Game-Changer for Hip Pain

During my journey, I discovered a tool that truly transformed my recovery: PEMF (Pulsed Electromagnetic Field) therapy.

I was introduced to PEMF before my surgeries, hoping to reduce inflammation, ease pain, and extend the time before I needed surgery. My routine became a mix of gentle stretching in a YMCA pool (yes, shower caps included!) and daily PEMF sessions at home.

The results were remarkable. Not only did it help physically—reducing pain and improving mobility—but it also eased the mental toll. Having a therapy I could control gave me a sense of agency, which is priceless when facing something as daunting as surgery.

Years later, PEMF remains a cornerstone of my recovery and wellness routine. It supports healing, immune function, and overall health, and helps me manage pain without relying on harsh medications.


PEMF 101: How It Works

PEMF devices come in several forms, depending on your needs:

  • Full-body mats: Energize every cell in your body

  • Localized paddles: Target specific joints like hips, knees, or shoulders

  • Brain entrainment devices: Support neurological function and cognitive health

But what makes PEMF truly remarkable is what it does at the cellular level.


Recharging Your Cells

Every cell in your body has essential duties:

  1. Generate energy

  2. Remove waste

  3. Repair and regenerate

  4. Perform specialized functions

PEMF enhances these processes. Magnetic fields move ions and electrolytes within tissues, sparking a cascade of chemical and electrical activity that boosts healing.

This activity increases ATP (adenosine triphosphate)—the energy currency of cells. Higher ATP means your cells have more energy to repair, regenerate, and function efficiently. Low ATP? Cells get fatigued, slow down, and become vulnerable to injury or disease. PEMF acts like a cellular power-up, helping your body recover faster and function better.


The Emotional Toll of Hip Pain

Hip pain is not just a physical challenge—it’s an emotional one. Chronic discomfort can bring:

  • Fear of movement: Every step feels risky

  • Isolation: Limiting activity cuts you off from friends, family, and community

  • Uncertainty: Questions about surgery, recovery, and long-term mobility can loom large

PEMF therapy, combined with education, support, and intentional movement, can ease both the physical and emotional burden. It gives you confidence to move, reassurance to heal, and control over your recovery.


Why PEMF Matters for Hip Recovery

If you’re recovering from hip surgery or managing chronic hip pain, PEMF therapy can help your body:

  • Heal faster: By energizing cells, tissue repair is optimized

  • Reduce inflammation and pain: Targeted therapy helps joints and soft tissues recover

  • Support bone and joint health: Aids bone remodeling and recovery after surgery

  • Enhance overall cellular function: Smooths the healing process and boosts long-term health


PEMF in Action: My Routine

Here’s what worked for me:

  1. Daily sessions at home: 20–30 minutes on a full-body mat or targeted paddle

  2. Movement therapy: Gentle swimming, stretching, and walking

  3. Tracking results: Pain, mobility, and emotional well-being

  4. Education and support: Connecting with communities and professionals for guidance

The combination of cellular energy, movement, and support gave me control over my hip journey and helped me approach surgery with confidence rather than fear.


Beyond the Physical: Taking Back Control

Hip replacement is about more than surgery—it’s about reclaiming your life. PEMF therapy helped me take control by:

  • Reducing pain without over-reliance on medication

  • Supporting recovery and mobility

  • Giving me a tool to actively participate in my healing

It’s a reminder that healing isn’t passive—you are an active player in your recovery, with tools, strategies, and knowledge to guide you.


Final Thoughts

Hip pain can feel overwhelming, isolating, and scary. But with PEMF therapy, proper movement, education, and emotional support, it doesn’t have to be.

Your journey is unique, but these tools give you:

  • Energy at the cellular level to heal faster

  • Relief from pain and inflammation

  • Confidence to move safely and actively

  • Support to navigate emotional challenges

Empower your recovery: Hip pain doesn’t have to define your life. With the right strategies, you can regain mobility, restore confidence, and take control of your recovery—one empowered step at a time.